Why Gay Pride Parades Are Still Necessary Today
Just your friendly gay man setting the record straight…
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As a gay man who is rarely discriminated against, you’d think that I would be questioning why we even need gay pride parades anymore. If I don’t experience it, is it even happening? Well, the fact is, while I don’t notice homophobia on a personal level, I still do see it on a societal level. Even in a place as progressive as Australia, there are people here who don’t like my sexuality. And even though a majority accept differing sexualities, many still wish to deny me certain rights.
It was only four years ago when Australia took part in a postal survey, asking whether same-sex couples can get married. And over a third of my fellow Australians preferred I didn’t. That’s 4,873,987 people who don’t think I should be able to marry my future boyfriend. In a country of only 25 million people (minus the children), that’s a decent chunk of the population. Of course, it must be said that a majority of these people probably don’t care that I am gay. In fact, many of them probably accept that we are part of society. They just prefer the traditional style of marriage between a man and a woman. (As if that’s always been tradition.)
Indeed, when it comes to sexuality, a majority of western society don’t really care anymore. They’re like coming out to Grandma. “Oh, you’re gay? That’s nice, dear.” We can party at gay clubs, openly use Grindr, and marry our same-sex lovers. Of course, that can’t be said for many of the countries in the Middle East, where some jurisdictions actively kill gay people while many others still persecute them. In my eyes, that’s a perfectly good reason to march down the street and state your pride. Just imagine how enthralling it would be to know that your actions, however small, could ignite activism in other, darker parts of the world.
Of course, even despite the social freedoms we gays see in the Western world, there are still many out there in our own countries who face homophobia. And it’s not just the kind that’s shared by others, but also within one’s own mind. Internalised homophobia is a dangerous thing, and it permeates every part of this world. Even today, depression and suicide remain high (even in Western countries) thanks to this personal affliction —…
