We are a labelling world, harnessing the ultimate desire for control. And one of our ways to gain control is to know exactly where we stand with others. This means labelling them.

Bitchy gay men are culprits to this when it comes to sexuality, and usually, they are the ones who don’t get a lot of sex. I say this because the men who DO get a lot of sex don’t really care whether their cuddle buddy is a homo or not. All they care about is whether they give good head or they know fine tricks with their fingers.

Labels are just another notch on your self-identity.

And, as I always say: nobody can label you but yourself.