Oh, I’m gay. No dispute about that. I’ve accepted it long ago. I love men, I love their appendages, I love their bodies, all of it. Not so much on women. Been there, done that.

And sex is just sex. What else do you think it is?

Also, you seem to misinterpret what I’m saying. It’s pretty arrogant on your part. I don’t want everyone to have sex with everyone because not everyone wants to have sex with everyone. I’m saying that if you’re straight and you want to try it out with the same sex, do it. It really is just sex. It’s not a life changing element of human nature, it’s simply a basic part of it. If you want to do it, just do it.

And that goes to you, too. I get the feeling some part of you wants to give it a go with guys. I could be wrong, but your willingness to discuss this topic while being so arrogant of it seems to paint a clear picture.

But, if you must know, I don’t want to have sex with you. I’m not keen on dealing with your unwillingness to be open about sexuality.

And lastly, please don’t equate sex with machine. Machines don’t have feelings, but sex is all about feelings.

Sex is better equated to the simple act of eating food. Humans do it to survive. Sex is both a procreation tool and a physiological need. It brings intimacy, togetherness and a sense of belonging.

I’m not hiding behind any pretext here, which you seem to believe. I’m just stating truth.

Put simply, I’m encouraging people to be who they want to be.

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