It’s Okay To Be A Slut
In fact, it’s more than okay!
I’ve lost my sex count years ago. If I could hazard a guess, it would be in the ballpark of about 80–100 — pun intended! But that’s pretty tame considering all the stories I’ve heard from my fellow homosexuals.
Regardless, I fit the description of a slut. And yet, surprisingly I haven’t been called one. But then, my sex life hasn’t made the evening news, unlike poor Monica Lewinsky who got a bit down and dirty with her boss. And she got called a slut! For sleeping with ONE man. What’s up with that?
I’ll tell you what’s up: men don’t like to lose and women don’t like to brag. But what’s the big problem if someone gets more action than you. If you’re jealous, go out and get some yourself! It ain’t that hard… And if you hate the idea of someone getting a regular pounding, then don’t do it!
A person’s sex life is not your responsibility. Just like everything else in their life. But unlike careers and the car they buy, who they have sex with and how much action they get doesn’t affect anyone else but themselves and their bed buddies.
As Long As They Do It Safely
As a person who regularly gets action myself, I take precautions. I wear condoms and I get tested regularly. Others who are riskier and more promiscuous than I will take further measures, like popping PrEP (an HIV-preventative drug) and getting tested more frequently. This ensures that if they do happen to have sex with someone who’s tame, the risk of transmitting any infections is low.
Taking this into consideration, the only other time a person’s sex life affects your life is if you catch them doing it.
Women Enjoy Sex, Too
The patriarchy has died out decades ago. But even back then women loved sex just as much as men. Unfortunately, the deep-seated pressures still linger, and women are largely silent about their sex life. But it shouldn’t be like that.
I wish we could all be sex-positive and open about the fun we’ve had to our friends and lovers. It’s healthy. It garners that beautiful feeling of belonging. Not to mention how much easier it would be for men and women to hook up. Why do you think gay men are so promiscuous?
I have lady friends who have had their moments where they just want to have fun. No strings attached. And it’s so heartwarming because they don’t care about the image it portrays. They’re horny, and they need to get off. We all get titillated from time to time, and sometimes our libidos need a workout. No matter if you’ve got a penis or a vagina.
And no, contrary to popular opinion, a vagina doesn’t get permanently loose from regular romping.
Your Sex Life, Your Rules
If you want to plow plenty of orifices or work with multiple members, then that is your prerogative. You are totally allowed to do that, and nobody can tell you otherwise.
Be a glorified slut!
Conversely, if you want to remain celibate and save yourself for the right person, then that is your right too.
It is your sex life, after all. They are your body parts and you can do with them whatever you wish.
But please do it safely, and do it with confidence!
Feature image: Romi Yusardi on Unsplash
Originally published at http://thegaystraighttalker.com on November 24, 2020.
